Conor McGregor had a lot to say after his 13-second defeat of the division’s 10-year-undefeated champion, Jose Aldo.
But I thought his most interesting words were reserved for his teammates, Gunnar Nelson and Artem Lobov, both of whom lost their fights:
Gunnar will be back, he’ll grow with it like he did the previous… As my coach says, we win or we learn. We will head back to the gym and we will enjoy and learn from every sequence that happened this weekend, and learn and grow from that. Add to it, implement these lessons into our game.
In other words, there is no failure.
This is true if you’re moving to Los Angeles, too.
I found if you’re planning a move to LA, you fall into one of two camps:
Camp #1: You’re still saving enough money and deciding why you want to move to LA
- Build skills that make you valuable
- Keep earning money anyway you can
- Use the Moving to LA calculator to find out how much to save
Camp #2: You have the money and skills, BUT the thought of failing is holding you back
A few examples:
There’s a lot of subtlety in these emails, but it boils down to:
I don’t want to fail.
- “I’m terrified about the actual process of making that career happen”
- “I’m deathly allergic to failure and dread moving back with my mom”
- “They give you the rundown on how bad it is… I questioned why I want to go”
That’s CRAZY pressure to put on yourself, before you’ve even MOVED.
It safer to delay — and do nothing — than try and fail.
Which is I love Conor’s words. It’s a powerful reframe:
We win or we learn. We will enjoy and learn from every sequence that happened, and learn and grow from that. Add to it, implement these lessons into our game.
When you first move to Los Angeles, your goal is to learn
To be clear: Greatness SHOULD is the ultimate goal, in whatever you pursue.
Daniel Humm, chef and co-owner of Eleven Madison Park and The NoMad in New York City put it this way:
When I was young my father told me that it didn’t matter what path I chose — whether it was a complicated profession or a simple one — but whatever I did choose pursue I should want to be the best.
But that comes later.
After you understand the industry, your competition, and where your particular perspective, skillsets, and personality fit in.
The first step is to learn.
Tim Ferriss’s goal is to write amazing, NYT best selling books. His first step is writing two crappy pages each day.
So someone like Mitch, who “wants a career writing for film & television,” should focus on “what I need to learn to be the best film & tv writer I can be” (because yes, there’s more to it than “write good”).
This is a small tweak, but it takes the pressure off, and moves your target much closer.
First things first: Get in the mix. Enjoy the process. Learn the sequences. And implement the lessons.